What is intuitive eating?

With the anti-diet movement gathering momentum, you may have heard about intuitive eating. Is it the answer to getting off the diet train for good?

Intuitive eating is an entirely different approach to what you may have tried or experienced before. In some ways it’s easier because there is no plan to follow. No forbidden foods, no rules of what to eat and when. But this is also exactly what can make the journey that much harder.

Intuitive eating (IE) is getting back in touch with your body. You know that gut instinct you sometimes get? That’s intuition. Listen to it! IE involves paying attention to your body’s signals and messages. Learning to hear them and interpret them so that you can meet all your physical and emotional needs.

IE involves a lot of self-reflection, it’s a very personal process. If you’ve followed diets before, you may feel confused and conflicted with your body. I speak to many women who don’t trust their bodies, don’t know what they enjoy eating or feel like eating and simply don’t know how to eat anymore.

If you think about the headlines you read, food is frightening! The media make our health (and food) very black and white. It’s do or die. And quickly, as if we are one dessert or one bite away from exploding.

Evelyn Tribole, who created the IE model in 1995 talks about “the fork being akin to a loaded gun – just one wrong move pulls the trigger”. She’s totally right! It’s no wonder we are petrified of eating but also very wary of diets. What are we supposed to do?!

We get driven towards clean eating (another can of worms I’m saving for later) and fads that are promoted in the name of good health. But we create more problems in our pursuit because they are not sustainable – disordered eating, preoccupation with food and our bodies, reduced body confidence and self-esteem, distraction from other personal health goals and ironically, weight gain.

There are officially 10 principles of IE, though you may come across more or less as these key principles are adapted by different practitioners and authors. They are designed to work in two ways:

  1. Those that help you tune into your biological cues like hunger and fullness; so you learn to recognise what hunger feels like, distinguish physical hunger form emotional hunger and learn to stop eating when you feel comfortable full. They also give you the ability to appreciate and respect your body in terms of sleep, rest and other self-care practices, which forms a strong thread throughout the model.


  1. Those that breakdown the barriers to change. These are much more mindset related – your thoughts; beliefs and rules about what you should and shouldn’t eat; what makes us categorise food into ‘good’ or ‘bad’ and what your body should look like.


These are the 10 principles

Reject the diet mentality. This is critical to finding inner peace. Nothing to do with Kung fu [panda] I promise but it's important to realise much of what you've read, watched and listened to about weight loss in the past was a lie. It gave you false hope and when you failed, they told you it was your fault. You will learn how dieting harms both your psychological and physical well-being. Challenge your beliefs and assumptions about what makes you healthy.


Honor your hunger aka eat when you're hungry. This may sound obvious but feeling hungry is so much more than a rumbling belly! I've worked with so many people who have gone to bed hungry and wondered why they couldn't sleep.  I'll give you tools to assess your own subjective hunger level. We will also start to explore how to find your last bite threshold (to prevent over eating) and help you get used to feeling comfortably full.


Make peace with food This is about letting go of food rules; to give yourself permission to have a particular food; that you don't need to rule out gluten, sugar, carbs or fat to get healthy. You will learn how to trust your body and yourself around food - a scary thought but a skill you can develop.


Challenge the food police Learn how to silence your inner bully - the one that says 'why did you eat that?' 'you know you can't have that!' 'you are weak'. Eating should be about pleasure not guilt! You can learn the power of self-compassion, how to be non-judgmental and get rid of those unhelpful, unreasonable rules.


Find Comfortable fulless Do you struggle to know when to stop eating before you bust your waistband and feel sick? Are your eyes bigger than your belly? Are you deaf to your body's hunger cues? Find out how to dial back in so you can respond to your body at the right time and create more pleasant eating experiences.


Find the Satisfaction Factor Carb free rice and bread and other diet foods will often leave you wanting more. You probably already know you will eat more of a product if it says low cal or sugar free. Learning what foods satisfy you as well as fill you up (these are very different things) can help you realise you don't need as much.


Cope with emotions with kindness - anxiety, stress, boredom, loneliness, anger; we all experience these emotions in life, but food won't fix them. If anything, eating for an emotional hunger will leave you feeling even worse. Learn the power of self-care, compassion and nurture to cope with your emotions; fill your own toolbox with techniques that ensure food takes it's proper place - a source of nourishment and pleasure.


Body respect. Do you accept your body? like it? love it? or do you hate it? Comparing ourselves to others and having unrealistic expectations about what's possible to achieve creates disdain. Speaking to yourself in a harsh and critical tone only enhances our self-criticism. Learning to treat your body with respect and kindness is vital if you are to truly reject the diet mentality and make the lifestyle changes you want to make.


Exercise The key to long term lifestyle change is to find things you enjoy. Viewing exercise as an opportunity to burn Calories is most likely to lead to demotivation, boredom and resentment. Here we explore your blocks to exercise and work on discovering activities you are more likely to enjoy and how you can make exercise a central and enjoyable part of your life


Life skills Upon reaching the end of the programme, you need to feel secure and confident you can cope with the ever-changing world of health and nutrition. Now that you have challenged the food police, made peace with food and rejected the diet mentality, you can now appreciate all food - there is no good and bad food so you can be more critical as a consumer and ignore the harmful and hyped up messages about eating you will no doubt continue to see.

IE helps you create self-compassion. Have you experienced negative self-talk, feelings of guilt and disappointment when dieting before?  Women particularly, have a strong tendency to self-berate. IE helps you develop a more nurturing mindset and positive path that will enable you to move forward.

Nearly 25 years on from its creation, there have since been numerous studies that have clearly shown the benefits of adopting an IE approach. In America, it’s included in the academic curriculum of many health courses; I would love to see IE included in nutrition and psychology degrees over here!

IE is not for everyone, you need an open mind to do things differently and confidence to step out of your comfort zone.  I often get asked ‘will I lose weight by doing this?’ My answer is following these principles will help you normalise your relationship with food and yourself. IE is about creating positive relationships that do not hinder or harm you. Weight loss may be a secondary effect (note I do not use the word benefit here).

The most important thing we can do is focus on our health behaviours; let go of weight because it is really isn’t a good indicator of health. The pursuit of weight loss alone is linked to reduced health outcomes.

If you’re interested in reading some of Evelyn Triboles work, I’d recommend this book

Honestly, I can’t say it’s going to be the answer for you; we have to find out own way but in my personal and professional experience it’s the only solution. If you have any questions about this, please do email me at mel@wakemannutrition.com


Happy New Year 💖

Mel x



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